Face facts: No one’s going to buy you that killer new road bike. Or a $4,000 espresso maker, dream stereo system, or vintage guitar. Some gifts — especially the big-ticket items — are so special they need to be bought by yourself, for yourself. We polled the editors about gear on their personal bucket lists. The result: Men’s Journal‘s first-ever Gift Guide for the Selfish, 43 worthy items that you know you want. So go ahead: You deserve it.